Wednesday 15 August 2007

Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Delerium Tremens

Current mood:  anxious
Category: Life
First, an apology to everyone, who has been trying to contact me, since last week; I have been in Hospital, following an adverse reaction to Baclofen. I have been experiencing wakeful nights, punctuated by painful, cramped spasms. My neurologist prescribed Baclofen, beginning with a 5mg dose, morning and evening, to be increased gradually, by fortnightly increments, to 80mg per day. I had reached a daily 60mg dose, when I suffered, sudden and excruciating photosensitivity. I became short of breath and could not lift either leg or move from my side, in bed. It was horrendous. I was very scared. My daughter was in Wales, at the time, on holiday, with friends and relatives. I called and asked that she might stay for another day. I am very fortunate in that way. B is a joy to be with and is always a popular and welcome guest. I called my care manager. My neurologist is currently on holiday and in his absence, she suggested a home visit by my GP. The doctor panics at my name and always sends me to the big guns at the hospital and so it was. I arrived at Burnley General Hospital. Burnley is an odd place: home of the Clarets, boasting; John Kettley, Ian McKellen and Alistair Campbell, Zac Dingle and Chumbawumba as its champions.
Having heard the 4 part harmony, the doctor admitted me to the wards and stopped the Baclofen. I had been warned not to stop taking it suddenly but the doctor assured me that my reactions would be closely monitored. I could still bear no light, struggled for breath and could scarcely move my limbs. I arranged for a friend to have B for another few days and bring her to see me. They made a big card and joked about my bad-taste sunglasses. 2 days later, I could roll over, my breathing was back to normal and I could bear to open my eyes with the lights off.
During my time in bed, I had to call for assistance to use the commode. Three times, I was left stewing in my own menstrual juices to be met with tuts and frowns and referred to, in my own presence, as if I had achieved inanimate status. I hate the ignominy of bed baths more than I dreamt possible. One woman seemed to understand but most of the staff was too busy discussing a hectic social calendar, to afford me any semblance of dignity or humanity, during my ablutions.
Day and night, a woman, called Jeanie, called out, 'Nurse, Nurse, Help me Nurse, I'm sick,' to be told, by a nurse, 'there are no nurses here, they've run away and left you because you bothered them, so much.' I can appreciate that it was annoying, it was annoying for all of us. Jeanie was incessant. She slept for 3 hours and called out for the remainder of the 24. She called out, even when a nurse was in the room with her. No one challenged the infrequent outbursts, from nursing staff: they were in charge of my drugs! I have added to my vast store of things that I feel bad about.
At home, I take my Riluzole at 6am and 6 pm. It works for me. In hospital, drugs were administered at 8am and 10pmish. On the Sunday evening, I was incredibly tired. My cramps had flared up, again with a vengeance; looking and speaking and even breathing were such an effort and Jeanie didn't help. I asked the pharmacist if she could dispense my medication earlier, so that I could sleep before the painful, overhead, fluorescent lights were switched on. She agreed to try to get to me for 9pm. At 10.45 the assistant pharmacist shone a torch into my face and woke me. I was in agony. I couldn't move my head out of the way and the light was piercing at the back of my eyes. I shouted, loudly and inconsiderately and called her a troll. She maintained the light, told me that she had to look in a cabinet by the side of my bed, for my medication, asking, 'would you like me to give you the wrong tablets, so that you'd die and I'd get sacked?' There's really, no response!
On Monday morning, the doctor did his rounds. I was going home. I came in, with photosensitivity. My photosensitivity was pretty much, gone. I missed B, like mad. I could transfer from chair to standing with minimal assistance and could stand with something to lean on. The cramps were back but I was not taking the Baclofen, so what, did I expect. The doctor told me that he would recommend another option to my GP. I came home. I was very tired but B and I were glad to be reunited and spent a couple of hours of quality catch-up time. She told me the plot lines of every TV programme I had missed, including the ones that I don't watch, anyway, honest. Ooh Bobby Davro is due to join the Eastenders cast!
My skin had started itching, and B began to remonstrate, with me, that I was twitching and scratching. The urge increased and I became dehydrated and tetchy. We decided to go to bed. The itching was unbearable. I tried to resist pulling at my face and ripping my eyes and if I gave in briefly, the sensation was increased 100 fold. I found myself muttering incomprehensibly. My brain was racing in a seeming non-sequitur. The only way that I could control it was by reciting, slowly and silently. I repeated everything that I have ever learned by rote. Poems, opening lines of books and plays, famous soliloquies, lyrics, ditties, the first 3 chapters of Virgil's Aeneid II! I have to laugh. There I was, trying to maintain my sanity, by doing the best impression of a candidate for Bedlam that I have ever seen. Sweating and desperately clawing at the sheets, I reigned myself in, slowly, concentrating on the gnawing ache in my stomach. I tried to reach the toilet, crawling across cool tiles and the previously vilified, laminate, of my predecessors, on my stomach.
By morning, I had made it back to the sofa. With help, I got dressed and had an inadequate and cursory wash. B and I went to the Cinema, where no one could see me shake. I felt as if my head was going to explode. It was pretty much the same routine, last night. I was rude to a girl from work, who phoned to see, how I was coping. It has taken all my strength and will power to be bright and pleasant to B without anyone else. Today, it's still bad, but noticeably more bearable. B has gone to play with her friend, in the village, until tea-time. I have a throbbing head and a burning sensation in my chest. My mobility is still worse than before but better than yesterday. The itching and shaking is still quite bad but I'm not so angry.
I'm sorry to those who thought I was ignoring them. Give me a few days' grace. I look forward to getting back on top of things.

On my player: These Streets - Paolo Nutini

Best wishes KB.

Wednesday 1 August 2007

Summertime

Wednesday, August 01, 2007 

... and the living is easy


Fish are jumping and the cotton is high.
Your mamma's rich and your daddy's a test tube
So hush little baby, don't you cry.

B has gone to Scotland for a holiday with the Northern Chapter of my clan. She is booked in for horse riding, boat trips and dancing and is really excited. It clashed with a visit from my friend from da'ahn sa'arf, who I kept up half the night, before we left, jabbering on. I really enjoyed her visit, albeit curtailed. Must do again. My southern mate corrupted B with cash bribes and she has bought a stash of artsy, craftsy raw materials. Everyone will be getting hand made cards and gifts, festooned with shells, for every conceivable event, for the next decade!
B phoned from the ferry, she had a fantastic first night, her cousin, 'Wee one,' (18 months old.) had worn her out in the park and the phone reception, in the Sound of Islay, was not good. We were eventually cut off, as she neared the Paps of Jura. I am left following her exploits, in my imagination. I have spent much of my time looking at Jura related websites.
http://www.undiscoveredscotland.co.uk/jura/jura/index.html
So for my latest tale of woe:
I was on my way home, having delivered the beautiful, B, to the Scottish contingent. 2 novels, 5 portions of fruit, 3 strong coffees and an unscheduled stop in Preston, later, I was struggling to get off the train, when she who shall not be named saw me and ducked into the nearest shop window, to avoid me. That would've been fine; I didn't see her, I didn't know about it but she had to phone and let me know!
Allegedly, she has to restrain herself. Stop restraining yourself, come and restrain me!
She has to deny herself to save us all from hurt: it's not working! For crying out loud, woman, don't deny yourself; feast and indulge. Life's too short; insert double entendre, as appropriate, here. I don't know about you, but I'm starving.
Apparently, I'm like a puppy dog; every time she sees me, she wants to take me home but she knows that it would be cruel and unfair, because I'd be too much work. For want of an expletive, I'm in a kennel about to be put down; they're going to do an advert for me, on the telly!
I feel like Paddington. "Please look after this bear!" Damned Aunt Lucy.
Hope everyone is enjoying the summer.
KB. x

PS. I'm currently getting wound up about a scheduled BNP Rally, locally that no one seems motivated to oppose.

http://www.ripleyandheanornews.co.uk/news?articleid=3003995

Off to read Pies and Prejudice: In Search of the North by Stuart Maconie

Thursday 5 July 2007

Ineffable

Thursday, July 05, 2007 

Expletive alert. Warning: Not Work Safe


Those of you who know me in the other reality, (I baulk at the phrase, 'real world,' as so much of my time, seems now, to be confined to cyber-space,) will know that I have been struggling, emotionally, to cope with, yet another, work related anti-climax. I can rarely remember feeling so wretched. Apologies to those of you who received the mad and frantic, late-night, text bulletins;


"Help, expletive needed!"


I have never found that profanity trips easily into my conversation but sometimes, nothing else will adequately sum up or express an emotion.


There are only, so many times, that I can say, "I feel rubbish," or, " I detest you intensely," before the phrase loses impact.


I think I have it now;


                                   my manager is as, " the stale wank-cheese, of a bloodied and fuckless, syphillitic cunt."


Please feel free to offer alternatives and / or improvements!


That feels much better.


I have never felt so close to accepting the medics' solution of a chemical lobotomy / strait jacket.


Yet again, B has saved me. I have a visit to her new school, this evening and shall, "get a grip". I will not embarass her any more than is my parental obligation. (Memories flood back of my mother at parents' evening, 30 years ago, in, "that red cat-suit". Brrr, shudders!) 


Thanks to the friend, who phoned, this morning and made me laugh. It's kind of pathetic, how important that was.


Rant over.


Still Lolling; aiming for a rofl later. x


I am listening to What Do Pretty Girls Do?
as recorded by  Kristy MacColl